Tony Hynes

Tony was adopted by his parents, Mary and Janet, in the mid-1990s. He writes about his experiences growing up as both an interracial adoptee and as a child growing up in an LGBTQ-headed household in his memoir “The Son With Two Moms,” a text that has been cited in the family court system to highlight best practices. Today, Tony advocates for families like his, having served on the Board of Directors for organizations that help to highlight adoptive families from diverse upbringings. He has been invited to be a speaker at conferences on adoption and foster care throughout the nation and has a passion for speaking up for children and families touched by challenges in the adoption and foster care system. Tony completed his master’s thesis in Sociology on the psychology of children within the same-sex-headed household and is now a Ph.D. Candidate at the Univ. of Maryland Baltimore County. His dissertation focuses on social connectedness among adult, interracial adoptees. Tony’s work and writing have been featured in The Atlantic, and he is a contributing author to books such as What White Parents Should Know About Transracial Adoption and Adoption Unfiltered. As the Training Specialist at the Center for Adoption Support and Education, Tony has designed innovative training curriculums that help families and professionals respond to evaluation and assessment tools that encapsulate holistic pictures of adoptees and foster youth. In 2021, Tony started the adoptee author series, to center adoptee experiences and expertise in public discourse.

Additional Resources Produced by Tony:

• The Son With Two Moms
• Why We Shouldn’t Call Adoptees Lucky
• I Am the Black Adoptee of White Parents: What George Floyd Taught Me About Race and the Adoption Industry