Location

The Cooper House

405 Randolph Ave SE, Huntsville, AL 35801

Itinerary

Schedule

8:30-9am: Check-In

9am-4:30pm: Training

lunch on your own

We will explore the following three frameworks: 

1. Engaging in the Social-Emotional Development of Teenagers 

Teens need the active participation of adults to help them navigate through the relational and emotional maze of adolescence to a healthy and stable adulthood. That participation, as you well know, is tricky, complicated, and mostly unwelcomed. To some degree, it’s easy to understand the parents who give in to the demand for independence and give up trying to engage, influence, and guide their teenage children. It's not just hard work, it's hard to know what in the world to do.

In this training section, Jack dives into the research related to the emotional, behavioral, and cognitive development of teens. He extracts practical understandings and useful pathways that will help you participate in their social-emotional development rather than feeling like you are sitting helplessly on the sidelines.

Key takeaways from this section include:

• Insights on child development stages and ways to focus on missing competencies 
• How your self-awareness improves your ability to help a teen cultivate theirs
• Understanding the power of perception and how to effectively navigate them
• Why managing expectations is more effective than applying fixes

2. Increasing Engagement through Coaching Conversations

The common mistake we make when a teen goes silent or offers the redundant “I don’t know” is to assume that what they need is information. Despite the dismal results of telling teens what they ought to think and do, adults persist in this activity because we don’t know what else to do to engage with them. Jack has seen great results by teaching parents, foster parents, therapists, educators, athletic coaches, youth directors in religious organizations, teacher aides, and social workers to have coaching conversations with teenagers.

In this highly interactive training, he presents the three doorways coaching accesses to attain a higher level of connection with teenagers and help them grow in adult thinking and problem-solving. 

Key takeaways from this section include:

• A clear concept of what coaching is and why it works (with everyone)
• 25 coaching questions that you can immediately use
• A framework we will practice that prepares you for effective conversations with teens

3. Navigating Around the Eggshells – Interacting with Traumatized Youth

The incidents of childhood trauma are increasing at alarming rates. The substance abuse and mental health services administration documents that over 60% of children report at least one traumatic event by age 16. The effects of trauma present unique challenges for anyone interacting with youth, especially those classified as at-risk, displaced, or disadvantaged. 

This section of training provides an understanding of trauma in layperson’s language and offers helpful insights on ways to have positive, low-triggering interactions with teens.

Key takeaways from this section include:

• Identifying and understanding trauma-based behaviors
• Ways to provide environments of predictability and continuity
• Expecting and contextualizing overreactions
• Knowing your limits and collaborating with professional interventions